and the feelings that I had for myself, after all was said and done, were not something I am willing to put myself through again.I am not saying that those who are ok with it are wrong...at all.Romance and respect and companionship are far more appealing and if sex happens to be part of the package.. It shouldn't be taboo to talk about, it is a natural thing to want sex. Alot of people have grown throughout the years, and women are not looked at, as so oppressed anymore. Some people, men and women aren't llooking for a serious relationship so does that mean that they should go without sex? Nothing wrong with having a "Sex Buddy":well here it goesthere is some sexist peeps out there and they are not all some men like the no strings attached thing but not same goes for women to (HELLO)may not make me a lot of fans but there are women that like no strings and there happy with can call them names for that ore you can call men names for the same reason.i dont whatever peeps enjoy doing they should do without haveing peeps judje them ore puting a lable on them.i think a lot of you women should stop looking at men as a lot of you men should stop looking at women like should look at each other as pepole! M., "Most" was left out, you are too particular or maybe too peculiar(? Those women who want no-strings attached sex will not be bothering you....maybe they will try. We do have minds and bodies that WE choose to use anyway WE choose to. I have learned a very long time ago, that what I think of a person isn't always WHO THEY are..... Personally, I don't go for it, but that's my generation.I still hear my Mother saying: "Good girls DON'T" Call me old-fashioned, I really don't care, at least you can never call me a tramp, or a slut. I have been there and done that a fair bit over the last year and a half.Whereas with a relationship, you have someone to talk to and spend fun times with in and outside of the bedroom. Not only women, (and not all women) think that all men are dogs, as apparently at least one man in this thread thought so.
As has been stated by others, it isn't always cut and dried.
Back on-topic, there is still really not much to add.
"No-strings" sex is little more than mutual masturbation.
So to all the coffee go'ers - you know where I was going to go with that.
On to my two cents worth, for me there is no such thing as no strings attached. I mean sex I can do for myself, so why bother if there aren't any strings... Although I am hoping to find a serious, loving relationship one day, soon... It isn't on my list of priorities, and not something I seek out. All in all, I guess I don't look down upon it, or look down on people who do it. But I also hope that all who are seeking something more, find it.